Apples & Thyme #3  – Celebrating time in the kitchen with mothers and grandmothers

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My mother is the original Kitchen Alchemist. At least she is to me. A complete original, it is in her kitchen, where I learned to cook, that I absorbed her alchemical approach to cooking. The combination of magic and science is indivisible in her world and I never realised until I was in my twenties and working in other people’s kitchens that there was any other way.

Stepping into her kitchen was, and still is, like stepping into another world. Time is suspended as nothing worth cooking can be rushed. Against the backdrop of hot stoves and the central kitchen table would be little vignettes that told the story of my mother’s day.

A handmade ceramic jug with stems of fresh cut lemon leaves, their citrus tang freshening the humid African air and their acid green colour a zesty visual pick me up.

A fresh laid tea tray with a melange of antique porcelain cups and my grandmother’s teapot awaiting the rapidly boiling water that would bring the aromatic tea leaves to life, and with them, memories of a childhood in Nyasaland and Northern Rhodesia, and older genetic memories of travelling and adventure, tea clippers and spice islands.

A rack of cooling Dutch Spiced Butter Biscuits, redolent with nutmeg, almonds and vanielje, and impossible to resist.

Bowls of exotic fruits, apricots, prickly pears and mangoes, piled high, their colours ripe with sun and summer.

And platters of apples, spring green Granny Smiths, tart and crunchy, freckled Golden Delicious, softer and more subtle, and fiercely blushing Braeburns or the super juicy and crispy Fuji.

My mother is an artist and her forte is to magically weave all the senses into one delicious and thoroughly satisfying whole. Colour and a visual approach play an important part in her cooking, and choosing the right dish is an art form. A chunky handmade pottery bowl for hot braised cinnamon apple slices with yoghurt – a winter after dinner treat for the children. A pale lemon porcelain bowl for the same apple slices braised in their own juice for an under the weather daughter, languishing fragilely on the couch. An African Kitsch brightly coloured plate for slices of fresh apple casually left on the kitchen counter to tempt growing teenagers. And a perfectly polished Snow White apple held in the hand while she quietly and confidently peeled it in one shiny red bobbing strip in front of the wide eyes of a five year old.

‘How do you do that?’ I would ask, not for the first time, and her answer was always the same. She would glance around as if checking for eavesdroppers, then with the furtive air of someone imparting great secrets ‘Magic!’ she would whisper, her eyes full of laughter and mischief, then she would smile as she tossed the strip to whichever salivating hound was lounging at her feet before cutting the apple in half and handing me my share.

I have seen my daughter try over and over again to peel a whole apple in one strip, and have no doubt that one day she will get it right. After all when she looks over at me and asks for the 100th time ‘How do you do that?’ I give the only reply possible. And if there is one thing I can be proud of teaching my daughter, it is to believe in magic.

 

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It seems like, along with many other people, I have got a slow start to the year with various colds and illnesses. For this reason Jeni at The Passionate Palate and I have extended the closing date for this month’s Apples & Thyme. So if you thought you had missed it, don’t despair, you still have until the 15th (officially) or even a few days after that to link your stories to us. If you find you have written a post in the last month that centres on kitchen and family recipes, feel free to send that in as well. We love the collection of memories that is growing around this event. If you would like to read other Apples & Thyme stories, the roundups are here and here.

And check the Vanielje Kitchen Cook Book for easy Hot Spiced Apple recipes.

 

 

13 Responses to “Apples & Thyme #3 – Celebrating time in the kitchen with mothers and grandmothers”

  1. on 10 Jan 2008 at 2:51 pm marye

    That is awesome Inge… what lovely memories you have

  2. on 10 Jan 2008 at 3:02 pm african vanielje

    Thanks Marye. I wish you would share some of your memories with us. They don’t have to be with your mother, maybe they can be with you and your kids as I know you cook with them.

  3. on 10 Jan 2008 at 3:49 pm Bellini Valli

    When I read your stories I envision one of my favourite movies with Meryl Streep & Robert Redford. I know that this takes place in Kenya and not South Africa, but it is my only reference to the country outside of books. I remember seeing it in the theatre and being drawn in by the beautiful landscapes.

  4. on 10 Jan 2008 at 4:59 pm african vanielje

    Valli, that’s not far off from how my mother grew up, and as a toddler I lived in that same Africa, but that is no longer the Africa that exists. In many ways it is now better, and in many ways now worse, but it is still my home and the keeper of my heart.

  5. on 10 Jan 2008 at 7:13 pm Kit

    Lovely memories – your mother’s kitchen sounds such a wonderful warm place – the magic ingredient of love.

    This time I really am going to write a post for Apples and Thyme – thanks for extending the deadline and reminding me. I should really sit down and write it now, so that work doesn’t get in the way tomorrow.

  6. on 10 Jan 2008 at 10:23 pm Amanda

    Oh Inge, I loved this! I so want the boys to always believe in magic. But then again, I still believe in Peter Pan and shout loudly ‘I believe’ to keep Tinkerbell and all the other fairies alive. The children have been known to join in.

    Now then off to practice peeling an apple all in one go…

  7. on 11 Jan 2008 at 2:00 pm african vanielje

    Kit, thank you for joining in Apples & Thyme, your post is full of love and emotion.

    Amanda, keep practicing, and keep yelling ‘I believe!’

  8. on 11 Jan 2008 at 5:13 pm Pasticcera

    I think the magic and the artist have found a continuum in your family.

  9. on 13 Jan 2008 at 7:17 am myfrenchkitchen

    A lovely memory, Inge. I am always intrigued about the small memories of our past that brings the biggest joy today! Will send in my entry in time, hopefully.
    Ronell

  10. on 14 Jan 2008 at 10:16 am Laurie Constantino

    I’m developing such a romantic image of your mother – I hope some day you post a picture of her. Another wonderful, evocative story, Inge. Thank you.

  11. on 15 Jan 2008 at 12:40 am african vanielje

    Pasticcera, thank you, high praise.

    Ronell, You may have noticed I weave my memories into my daily life, they are what makes it so rich and full. I hope to add yours to Apples & Thyme, but if not this month then next month…

    Laurie, my mom’s a little camera shy, but she is beautiful, and soft and loving, and fiercely defensive (of her children), and small and fragile (5 ‘ and a bit), and amazingly strong – everything a mother and grandmother should be, and then some! She’s a woman worth knowing and I’m glad I can share her with you.

  12. on 15 Jan 2008 at 7:35 pm Jeni

    You weave such beautiful stories, Inge. Your words create a tapestry of images full of color and life. Someday when you publish your cookbook, you must include these stories!

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